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Saturday, December 19, 2009

CATCH-UP

I think it's about time Engel writes about the cause of the drama in his life the last few weeks. For one, he thinks he's okay now.

Remember Chris? Engel wrote about this about a couple of months ago, before he even met the ex. He followed some of the people's advice to just forget about his feelings for the kid, but still kept the friendship, as Engel was the cause of the kid's bisexual tendencies to emerge.

He did keep his word. He shoved whatever feelings he had behind him. He even had a boyfriend to show that he's serious in not taking advantage of the kid. And Chris understood. The entire time Engel was hitched, he kept his distance. While they do text and call each other sometimes, there was still a wall between them. A boundary that says they're better off as friends.

Then Engel broke up with ex. That's when things got complicated.

The kid's feelings came back. And being young, he got confused. He tried fighting his feelings for Engel. He's obviously not ready to live an alternative lifestyle. He has a girlfriend. Other than Engel, he doesn't know anyone else who lives like this. He's 19 and he doesn't know what he wants in his life. For all everyone knows, this could just be a phase he'll grow out of.

Engel on the other hand's been fighting feelings that have been wanting to burst out of his chest since the first day he met the kid. He had to fight it because after the break up, he realized he's not yet ready to commit with somebody. Anybody. And pulling Chris in, would be a HUGE mistake.

Long story short, they tried to say goodbye to each other. During those times they felt, and said that they loved each other, but since they both know it's a longshot that they'll end up with each other, to not make the inevitable difficult they decided to end what they had immediately. They said farewell.

Three times.

In one week.

But it seems that what they had for the one month that they knew each other, is something they can't move on from. So one Sunday evening they said hello again.

Things are better now. It's back to normal, although there are days when Engel can't help but get frustrated that things can't be more than what it is. But he's slowly accepting. Right now, they are better off as friends. And although Chris, doesn't say this, Engel knows he feels the same way.

This is not the right time. It is possible that they really aren't even meant for each other. But one thing is for sure, Engel likes where they are right now.

They don't know where things will go from there, but he's sure he'll... they will both be okay. And there's already a strong foundation between them that it'll be difficult to destroy whatever they have.

Oh, and for people who think Engel's got sugar daddy tendencies. Dream on. The kid comes from a well off family.

One thing that's kind of disturbing though, is that Engel for now is better off as a friend. That maybe it's what he's only good for. Being a goddarn friend.

11 comments:

Rei Mikazuki said...

If a relationship ends with the both of you treating each other as you deserved, then surely the two of you can be good friends long after. After all, you still love each other as friends.

Haaay. Si Junjun, sugar daddy. Ang swit swit! :)

Eternal Wanderer... said...

if the friendship is built on solid foundation, it'll weather the storm.

trust me.

been there, done that ;)

domjullian said...

ang gwapo mo kasi

JayPee said...

Hhmm. I can relate to Chris, for once I fell in love with an older guy. Haha.

Yeah, better off as friends. F*ckshit that thing. Why be friends when you can be lovers? Sa akin lang naman..

wanderingcommuter said...

personally, id rather have a good friendship than to sacrifice it for the sake of an uncertain relationship..

Yj said...

i'm glad it ended that way...

the first time i committed myself to this guy who turned out to be just "confused"....

let's just say, all hell broke lose....

Anonymous said...

this is not the right time... not just yet =)

- darc

Maxwell5587 said...

tama si ternie and ewik, mas may leverage and bearing kung friends lang muna. testosterone could be a bitch sometimes. lalo na sa ganung edad.

m2mtripper said...

"Through the Fire"

engel said...

m2m: may ganung kanta talaga?

max: that's true, and that's where we are for the meantime.

darc: if the right time doesn't come i'm happy that for now we could just be friends.

yj: i guess wag pilitin kung confused yung tao just let things flow. kung kayo talaga para sa isa't isa mother nature will just take it's course.

ewwik: that is true.

jaypee: just like what ewwik said.

dumenec: di kaya.

ligaya: yup. kaya nga ngayon, we're building the foundation. there are just some people you don't want na mawala sa buhay mo.

rei: i'm no sugar daddy!!! =P

iurico said...

hay naku. Ewan, i totally disagree. Hehehe

We dont experience these feelings very often. Why make it hard for the both of you by supressing what you guys truly feel for each other?! Sometimes, the best things in life are done spontaneously and without a f*ckin care in the world! It may not be the right decision when you look back on it, but hell, it was worth the mistake!

Take this from a guy who just risked his career and consequently - his future! Hahah