When you haven't outed yourself, you get alot of questions. People specially your family have alot of expectations. Unfortunately some of them want those expectations met.
Sometimes it's frustrating (if this seems familiar, I already wrote this somewhere else and in Filipino).
Tita: Engel, when are you going to get married?
Engel: It might take awhile.
Tita: Aren't you afraid you might get left behind. You're not getting any younger.
Engel: I'm fine. I'm a guy. I'm not worried about having kids.
Engel: And besides, I'm happy where I am right now.
Tita: That's not a good idea. If you get kids when you're older, who do you think will take care of them? When you hit 60 do you think you could still take care of a teenager?
Tita: I'm just worried you won't be able to take care of your children.
Engel: How about you tita, when are you going to get married?
Tita: is offline
Another Tita: Technology's great, yeah.
Tita: You get to talk to family hundreds of miles away.
Tita: You see their pictures.
Tita: I especially like facebook.
(me thinking to myself uh-oh)
Tita: You get updated with old friends
Engel: Yup. Yup.
Tita: So I see on your profile you're in a relationship
Tita: Aren't you going to tell me about your girlfriend?
Engel: is offline.
Maybe it'll be easier if I just out myself.
3 months ago